How to train Kian Zhoe responsible to His works

At the beginning, i make a daily record for his work done in the school..This records is in the table form and i will put on the wall so that he can see his performance whenever he wants..

I give him stickers for his works done and the stickers will be accumulated for the rewards..He likes the games and tv most.. use this as an encouragement.

Slowly the stickers will change to a tick, smiley faces or others..Must be creative to attract his interest and keep changing to encourage him.

Before we start with this records, we actually had an agreement and this agreement must have our signatures on that.

I list all the subjects, the date and  remarks columns..Initially he has difficulty to reach his goal and rewards..Main problem is the Concentration..I knew it is difficult for him but i need to help him to overcome it..In order to help him up, i will set a half page or even one third of the page for him to complete so that he wouldn't give up on his works and built his confident in his subjects.  Slowly, increase the pages base on his ability.

Sometimes, he has his behavior problems such as walking around, talking in the class, go toilet,drink water while the class is on,disturbing others and etc...teacher will give me the feedback on this..from here, i need to talk to him at home..I knew something happened to him must be a reason behind.  He may not understand teacher's instruction, something attract his attention at that moment or not feeling well.  This is the most challenging part to know him better..sometimes our conversation will last for few days just to find out what actually happened and cause him to react like that..Sometimes, i may not know the reasons and answers although i asked him many times.,when reached to this circumstances, i believed he don't know what his wrong although he had did it, so i need to teach from there..

Whatever he did wrong  must give him a chance to do better..always talk to him at night and encourage him can do better tomorrow..remember must acknowledge his good behaviors and keep encourage him continue to do it.

Very thankful that this table of records had last about a year..and now no need to record anymore..Now, he knows what to do, how to do and the rules in the class..In my point of view, although it takes times and starting hard or may not know the end result, but if keep continue to do it, sure can see the improvements of him and the adjustments for us, not only he learns, i am learning as well..learning see things from his hearts and minds..

I always remind him that he needs to responsible to his works and make him alert what will happen if not fulfill his responsible.  Not only that, i must also give him good examples and guides to learn and follow..