A Christmas Present for You and Me

15th December 2011

This is the Christmas drawing from Kian Zhoe with teacher guidance

Today, i feel like want to share about Kian Zhoe again...

Most people are not understand about William Syndrome....

Williams syndrome is a rare congenital abnormality, which is caused by deletion of the gene that makes the protein elastin from chromosome 7..

Their characteristic

They are very sensitive and extremely polite in a way.  They tend not to fear strangers, show a great interest with adults and may have problems forming relationships with their peers because of their over friendly characteristic..Due to the over friendly characteristic, Kian Zhoe may give a bad impression to some people.  I am sincerely apologize on his behalf.

Some of them thought he purposely do that and making fun of it.  They even hurt him by saying all those negative words like Stupid, Silly, Mad,...Not a surprise that, he told me all about these..His kindness and sincerity has forgive those who hurting him before..and his positive mind always keep me to move on..i really wish he can over come and have a great breakthrough for this.. 

We usually will have a sharing time and he will share about what he sees, hears, likes, dislikes, happy, sad, scare...i need to lead him to express himself..its take times...i must also remembered part by part, like a movie,will continue the next day..this is our secret of sharing...

Really hope whatever i shared could give an awareness for these children and their parents..We have no choice but to accept them. 

"But for those who have a choice and intelligent, can choose a nice words rather than to say the bad words to insult them and this will hurt the ones who really care them..Remember that, words have power yo..!,thank you:)"

This life of children have inspired me to compose a song for them..although,It is just a lyrics but i have the melody in my mind..whosoever want me to sing, i can sing for you..


We actually have a beautiful conversation when he hear me singing to him..

He said "mummy, next time i play drum and you sing arr..."

I said "ok" (my heart of course wish to have this moment..)

I said again "Do you like this song?"

He said "yes"

He said again "mummy, can i kiss u?" (he hardly do this before)

I said "ok"..(then he was so happy and kissed on my cheek, and my heart was so warmth..)

I knew he understood the lyrics are express out his feelings. He likes it and feel comfortable with it..,I hope this can touch your heart too..:)

Its a very beautiful song for Kian Zhoe and the William Syndrome Children..:)

My Life

A happy always on my face

A beautiful heart to show my love

Be strong and brave always in me

And these give courage all around

I need your love to lead my life

I need your patience to show my ways

You are with me side by side

This made me never feel alone

I can feel there are angels' wings

Carrying me through all challenges

Although it is hard, I believe I can

For a better future

When I'm afraid to go on my way

My heart wishes you come nearer

Give me a hand, hold me tight

For the brighter future.....

Christmas 2011

2011 Christmas is coming lo.......

Santa Claus is coming to town....^^

I believed this is the most joyful and peaceful moments..

Kids are the most happiest because of receiving presents..

While preparing some Christmas Stuff for 2011, i was just recalled and reviewed my last year 2010, we had a gathering Christmas Party at home..relatives,teachers and our closed friends are invited to share the happiness..Bro and sis also came and caroling in our home..singing Christmas songs..

My sister inlaw(Mei Chan) were busy helping in kitchen for frying some hotdogs to serve the guests and 2 nieces(Ashley and Frances) were helping us to be the best ushers to serve the guests and Ashley would be our camera girl for the night.  Not only that, Janice and Alice were helping us in decoration too..Sincere thanked for all their helps yo...

Very fast for the 1 year flies........

We should be thankful for having a Blessed Fruitful for 2010..^^

Some Christmas photos(2010) would like to share with u....

A Beautiful Christmas Tree!

Wow, full of blessing!

Thank you for all the blessing!

Nice Food ^^..

Bro and Sis are caroling....

Gift to kids!

His 9 Years Old in Mummy Diary

9 years old

I trained him to pass motion at home early morning before going to school..sometimes he was not. One day, It happened he actually did his big business in the class.  When I reached to school..,everywhere was covered with newspaper and the students started to tell me "it was Kian Zhoe's shit, i was shocked!".., I went to see Kian Zhoe's form teacher.  The form teacher told me he had passed motion in the class and when on his way to toilet - (quite a distance to go toilet), the shit was dropped from his pants..  At the end, Wen Dat - a teacher was helped him to do all his cleaning and changing.  Wen Dat even told me it was a small matter and kids are like that..my tears was coming out non-stop,kept thanking him many times and my heart was so touched that teachers were not complain him but was comforted me instead...The form teacher JiaWei also asked him "why you not going to toilet"?  He answered "mummy will scold..,mummy will scold"...Surprised and sad when I heard this. I realized Kian Zhoe has got my message wrong..From this incident, we both learning..He had trained me to be more patience to teach him and learn to see things from his side ..My heart was full of thankful after that incident!

When the incident happen, it will teach us a lesson and not late to learn the lesson:)..
it is good to happen actually!

Hatyai Trip

3 December 2011

3 days 2 nights

Family Trip To Hatyai

Drove to Penang all the way from Kuala Lumpur.  Took 4 hours to reach Penang.  Overnight in Penang at Mae's(Begor) house and then began our trip to Hatyai the next morning at 9.00am.  Everybody was excited.  From Penang, 9 of us rented a van to Hatyai.  Hot weather all the way.  At around 2.00pm we reached Hatyai and checked in in the Hatyai Merlin Hotel.  However, the environment and service was not good :(

After we settled all the things, we started to find a place for our lunch.  We ate Char Siew Rice which nearby to the hotel with the walking distance.  Then we had ice-cream as our deserts.  

We are in the Tut Tut Car

We are waiting for our ice-cream

We shared the coklat banana ice-cream! hihi,mummy eat first^^

The whole gang just waiting for the ice-cream!..See,ah BeGor is hungry looking at our icre-cream..

After everybody satisfied with the food, then we went to Water Market by Tut Tut Car..Along the river, there have many hawkers stores to sell things. Pictures show here:

Kian Zhoe and Papa at water market! 

 

These are the insects sold at one of the hawker stores in the water market,Hatyai..

This show how they do their business along the water..

 At around 8.00pm, we had dinner at Lee Garden Hotel.  Nice Foods and we satisfied with it.  Then, we had a walk in the Lee Garden Plaza afterwards.

The next morning, after the breakfast in the hotel and we went to Big Plaza by Tut Tut.  We walked and walked along the street and lunch at one of the Western Restaurant. Foods tasted good. We also satisfied.

After a long walk at the Big Plaza's street, we just take photo here...it's one of the shop in the Big Plaza..

Our Happy Family Photo!

This is Frances!

This is Mae! Sweet Smile yo..

A Group Photo!

One of the corner in the Big Plaza..tired after the long walk..

 

At night, we had a seafood and Bak Kut Teh for dinner.  However, the taste not suit us..

Overall the trip was not satisfied especially of the hotel bad environment and service, but one thing kept our memory was good because of our family members.. We talked and laughed all the way.  Enjoyed with them.

HIs 8 Years Old in My diary

8 years old

One day afternoon,when i picked him up from school(Bai Xiao).  His form teacher told me that his shoes was always wet after the second lessons and he may be played with the water - rainning. After a few days, his shoes was still wet although there was no rain...We started curious why?..We asked him but he was having a difficulty in express himself and unable to get answer from him on the spot.  I was kept asking and leading him at home to express himself for what he has done in the school.  He even act it out again and again what he did in the toilet. At first i was no idea on what he tried to express.  After few times, finally i knew what was going on with him..Guess what?

He actually poured water by using a small pail in the toilet after wee wee..He was not enough strength to hold the pail which filled with water and finally his shoes get wet..hahaha..from there, I have a great time to understand him and to teach him to flush instead of using the pail.  After that, his shoes no more wet from then onwards.

(Our both achievement!^.^)

His 4 Years Old In My Diary

4 years old

One of afternoon (hot weather), i went to see him during my working lunch hour.  The nursery was actually quite nearby to my working area..when i enter to the kitchen, I saw him eating with friends and teachers together..when he saw me,he didn't say anything but teacher asked him to call me 'mummy' and he followed what teacher asked him to do.  Then later, he asked me "where is papa?"....This is the first full sentence coming out from him! My heart was so touched,warmed and happy tears in my heart..(nobody notice ^.^)..

 I was touched because he noticed papa was not with me and curious why papa not coming together..and of course the first sentence coming out from him..(Great Achievement!)

A Song for Kian Zhoe In His First Creature

During his first class (before teacher gave me all the comments), i was actually waiting him for one and half hour..in my heart, i was so wish that Kian Zhoe could join for the class and my heart was kept praying..

Just out of sudden, a beautiful melody came into my mind and i can't wait to write it down the lyrics and record down the melody..

It is a Mandarin Song for Kian Zhoe with the presence of God..wowowo...^.^

我是你造的  (I am your Creature)

我如此的渺小,

但因神的爱,

我得救赎

我如此的不配,

但因神的爱

我得生命.

感谢神你对我不离弃,

感谢神你不断陶造我,

成为你手中的器皿,

使我有能力,有勇气,

哈里路亚,求你充满我

哈里路亚,求你改变我

This song was done just before the teacher gave me the comments, within the one and half hour while i waiting for him (melody plus lyrics). Furthermore, i don't know whether he can carry on with the class or not..However,God's love is too strong until i have this beautiful song came out for that beautiful moment..

Once i get it done for the music, then will post it on in my blog..:)